Suppose a runner resolves to win a marathon in the next year, but of the hundreds of runners who enter a marathon, there can be only one winner. Their resolution is kaput and they may feel they have failed.
Suppose, instead, their goal is to run a personal best, even by one-tenth of a second? Chances are they will be able to do that.
My goal is to finish my novel, but I may only finish the first draft. I'll still have done something I've never done before. I'll have exceeded my personal best. If I don't finish, then my goal is still out there waiting for me to catch up.
My resolution is to write when I can, and not to obsess about what I haven't done. My goal is set, but I've been kinder to myself. Take a page from business and try to set SMART goals.
- Specific
- Measurable
- Attainable
- Relevant
- Time-bound
When I sit down to write, I'll keep those in mind.
- Specific: I will write when I have an hour to myself (30 minutes if that's all I have)
- Measurable: I will write at least 200 words
- Attainable: Even if those 200 words are dreck, they will still be there.
- Relevant: If I only write 200 words a week, I will have at least 10,000 words that are new.
- Time-bound: One year to finish my first draft.
Think I can do it?

